EVANS GANG

Madison is 15 going on 16, where does the time go?

2011-01-24T13:18:00.001-06:00

The day you were born we were in the middle of a wicked ice storm here in Kansas. When I got to the hospital my labor all but stopped. I was devastated when they wanted to send me home. I begged them to break my water with the promise that I would have you before lunchtime. The bargain was struck and the deal done and you came into the world at 11:46 am….plenty of time to spare!

You have been a joy and delight in our home since that icy day you made your debut 15 years ago. Your kind heart and compassion for others makes you stand out, not to mention that gorgeous and generously given smile of yours.

It is a blessing to be your mother and you inspire me daily to be a better person. I am so glad that you are mine. I can’t wait to see what this year brings for you!

Happy birthday Sweetheart!

Updates…only 18 months later!

2010-12-28T00:50:00.000-06:00

Ok, I have so many excuses as to why I haven’t posted for 18 months. I know you are dying to know why…so here are a few of my reasons:

Landon graduated from High School. I was in denial that I had a child old enough to leave the nest.

Landon left home and attended school at BYU. I was in denial that I had a child old enough to attend university.

Landon received his mission call to Los Angeles, CA. I had to get him ready to go. I was in denial that I had a child old enough to go on a mission.
It was Christmas. I had to get that put together and I was in denial that it was already Christmas and that I was a year older
Madison turned 14! That was crazy….and I was in denial that I had a daughter who was 14 already.

Then before I knew it Patrick turned 45. How could that be? Denial again…

March rolled around and guess what? Alex turns 16! Woot Woo!!! Its about time we have another driver in the house. Denial gets outweighed by relief.

May comes and Ethan turns 12! How can it be that my baby is 12? I feel really old and then the denial really sets in. School ends for the year and I can’t believe that Madison will be in High School next fall and that I will have 2 kids at OE. Ethan graduates from Elementary school and will start 7th at CT. Where does the time go???

We have Girls Camp, Youth Conference and then Scout camp in June. Then before we know it, July is here and I have to deny that I am actually another year older as well.

July also brought a two week trip to the Philmont Scout Reservation for Alex and Patrick. It was an awesome experience for the both of them and one that will not be forgotten any time soon.

August rolled around and we took a quick trip to the Lake with the Masilionis Family. It was a much needed getaway. Then it was back to school and routines. It was a busy month of back to school events and trying to get ourselves organized again.

September flew by and before we knew it was October. Alex received his Eagle Scout award and we began planning his court of honor for November. Alex, Madison and Ethan all had concerts and we had multiple soccer games to attend. September also brought a new sport to our gang…Cross Country!

October we celebrated Landon’s 20th birthday and once again I found myself in denial about the fact that I had a 20 year old child. I just can’t seem to get over myself.

November flew by and with it came Alex’s long awaited Eagle Award Presentation and Thanksgiving.

Oh December, you came so quickly. You mark a year for Landon on his mission! Ahh the tender mercies of the Lord who has filled the empty space in our hearts with other things so we wouldn’t miss him too terribly much. December had us by the collar from the get go. We celebrated a Page Turner Christmas at Shadow Glen. We also had a lovely evening at the Gas Light Grill with PMG. We had packing and driving to do and Christmas to Celebrate in Canada. It has been a whirlwind for sure.

And in between it all I worked full time (notice I said worked. that is a story for another blog post) and happen to be the YW President in my ward. But the most important reason of all is that I am also a wife and Mother trying to stay on top of my game. Hey, I am not superwoman, but I like to think I can do it all. Not keeping up a blog for 18 months is proof that you just can’t do it all and stay sane.

So all my reason’s for not blogging are legit! Denial was the cave that I choose to live in. I am ready to come out and play.

Landon Receives "Duty to God" Award

2009-04-03T12:23:00.003-05:00

Landon received his "Duty to God" award at a court of honor this week. It is the culmination of many years of dedicated church service and diligence in being an honorable young man. Congratulations to Landon for this recognition.

Alex is 15

2009-04-03T12:21:00.003-05:00

On March 31st Alex hit 15. He is very excited to be closer to the legal driving age.

The Flesh Is Weak!

2009-02-23T15:05:00.004-06:00

Ok, I caved! I was doing so well and I blew it! When Inside Edition called I freaked, I needed something to soothe my frazzled nerves and curb my taste for chocolate. I needed a DC in the worst way and so I am back on the wagon, chugging my 2nd one for the day. I am weak. I am human. I am addicted. I need help. I need another one. By the way, taping for Inside Edition was awesome. I will post about that tonight when I am drinking a DC with lime from a frozen cold glass......

Sick Leave

2009-02-09T13:22:00.004-06:00

As if there was such a thing...I wish! We have been away on sick leave for the past month. I have had a nasty infection that I've been battling now for 2 months. Now on top of that a lovely bladder infection. I AM NOT EVEN DRINKING DIET COKE!!! I have no idea how that came about. I drink more water than my whole family combined. Maybe I should drink diet coke again.....

Patrick, Alex and Madison all have sinus infections (which is what I started out with early in the year) and are miserable. Landon has bronchitis and has been so, so sick. I haven't seen the boy voluntarily nap for 17 years. He even stayed home again today from school. Can you spell LOTS OF HOMEWORK?

Ethan, wants to be sick so he can stay home from school. Every morning he wakes up and has a sore leg, or sore tummy, or headache. I gave in last week and said, "okay then, stay home!" so he had a fun day calling me every 10 minutes at work asking me a question. Oh the joys.

Here's a warning. Stay away. Even though we are medicated, we are a mess. I am grumpy. The laundry is needing to be done, menus are neglected and bathrooms are gross. I am going to find out if there is a magic pill to make it all better. I will let you know if it can be purchased legally.

Alex Eagle Project

2009-01-11T11:45:00.009-06:00

Alex chose to perform a service project on behalf of the Ronald McDonald House of Kansas City. He organized a project to tie 12 quilts for sick children and then deliver them with a spaghetti dinner to the families in residence at the house. It took a lot of people to pull this off in the three weeks that he had to get it done. He learned a lot and did a great job. The staff at the house were so impressed with the project and the children love the quilts.

We are proud of Alex and his accomplishment. Great Job.

It was a labor of love.

Scout spaghetti. Yum.

Landon might get a job at a soup kitchen.

Ethan was a hard worker.

Grandma JoAnn helped a ton with sewing and teaching.

Scout quilters.

Family Home Evening at the quilt rack.

Christmas Eve Jammies

2009-01-11T11:35:00.004-06:00

Landon could not resist that siren call of the batman jammies from 2nd grade. They still fit mom. Nice mask from the ninja turtles collection. Donatello, where is the pizza, dude..

We wish that Ethan would get a personality. He is so quiet and shy. Not......Nice batman top from 2nd grade.

Christmas Day Photos

2009-01-11T11:21:00.012-06:00

Wake up and get ready for the big day. We stayed home this year and had a nice holiday celebration together.

Envelopes can be fun!

More XBox games. Niiiice.

I like to film random stuff?

I like my Nintendo DS.

This is one long crossword puzzle about the Simpsons. Thank goodness I know every episode.

Money and a Crickut. How very nice. Just what I always wanted.

Cash. Me likey.

Hands free communication. Perfect choice.

Evans Kids for Christmas

2009-01-11T11:18:00.003-06:00

OK. We know we have beautiful children. This is the first picture ever taken with all of them smiling nicely. A real stroke of genius.

See how happy!!! Even the dog and the cat were cooperating.

Landon - Leadership Presentation

2009-01-11T11:12:00.003-06:00

Landon is enrolled in Leadership Studies at his High School and will receive an endorsement with distinction when he graduates for his 4 year participation in this course of study and service.

This is a photo taken after he made his presentation of his Senior Leadership project in the school theater. He did a project of organizing and coaching a girls goalkeeping clinic all fall at a soccer club. He prepared weekly practice agendas, took surveys from the girls, prepared them, and taught them. He received significant praise and Kudos from the soccer club director, coaching staff, and parents for his motivational approach and success in teaching the girls.

He has a real future in coaching.

Landon - Barton College

2009-01-11T10:45:00.003-06:00

Landon was invited to a recruiting weekend for Barton College in central Kansas in early December. He has dreamed about playing college soccer forever. We went out on a Friday and he did a goalkeeping tryout that evening for the coach. After 45 minutes of play he was invited to consider a position on the team.

By the end of Saturdays full field scrimmage with the team the coach made an offer to Landon to play. He was very excited and thought that he would take the offer.

Since that time Landon has had time to reflect on what he really wants and needs to do. He has made the decision to attend BYU this summer instead and then turn in papers to go on a church mission this fall when he turns 19. The soccer dream was awesome, but he felt that the mission was more important for now.

A NEW ADVENTURE---SHOP SMART!

2009-01-08T15:25:00.002-06:00

As if I wasn't busy enough...but with a New Year ahead of me I've embarked on a NEW adventure. I have shared with many of you that our family has been working towards becoming completely debt free. We have been able to cut a lot of things out, but found that a large portion of our monthly budget was still going towards food, household supplies and personal care items.

In my efforts to save money and live more frugally, I found www.BeCentsable.net and it has made all the difference. Go to the website and check us out!

BeCentsable offers workshops that teach money and time saving strategies. In our workshop you will learn how to cut all of your food, personal care items, household supplies, baby supplies, and pet care expenses! This workshop teaches you all the details of shopping frugally - things you thought you knew and things you’ve never even considered! I think what I love about it most is that we are not asking you to buy things but we teach you to SAVE MONEY! ...what is that ancient chinese proverb? "Give a man a fish and you feed him for a day. Teach a man to fish and you feed him for a lifetime."

The great thing about it is that even if you don't live in the KC area, you too, can learn these strategies by taking a workshop online...or you can book a workshop and I will come and teach it for you and your friends.

DC FREE, 8 days and counting.,,,

2009-01-08T10:30:00.007-06:00

I have been DC and DDP free for 8 days and counting now! Yay!! I can hardly believe how easy it has been for me to give it up. I must admit that I have had some help in accomplishing my goal. What is amazing is thatI haven't had a caffeine headache yet...knock on wood. Now I can't tell a lie, I still have a craving for that taste and familiar burn, however I have found that Diet 7-up does it for me! It is mmm...so good and refreshing. What I find interesting is that I only have a soda maybe once a day now where I was having upwards of 3 DC's to get through. I am as a result of drinking tons of water each day spending more time in the ladies room.

Who knew that lemon-lime could be so satisfying?

195 or JUST SAY NO!

2008-12-15T15:01:00.005-06:00

One hundred ninety five. I can't believe it....I am still in shock! I happened to open my drawer at work only to find that I had spilled over my collection of pop tabs. I decided out of curiosity to count them. Big mistake, I shouldn't have. One hundred ninety five tabs later, in total disbelief, I put the cup back in my drawer. I drank a lot of DC. I feel really sick right now, but guess what?!!! I just popped another! Chalk that up to 196.

Why do I have this addiction? What is the "root" of it? How can I have drunk all that soda? Why am I drinking another? Why does my mouth water when I pass a QT? Why do I crave that burn? Why, why, why? Will I die of throat cancer? Stomach cancer? Colon cancer? Will I say on my death bed, "I should have known better?"

Does anyone know of a DC rehab center? Can you spell NEW YEAR'S RESOLUTION? I really need to learn how to spell, "NO!"

I was so mad...

2008-12-11T15:12:00.003-06:00

So, I noticed that my tire was low today when I got to work. There is a gas station about a 1/4 mile down the road and on my break, which is only 15 minutes long, I decided to run down there and fill it. I get there and of course there is this huge landscaping truck parked right where the compressor is. I pull in to a spot waiting for them to leave....5 minutes later they start to move and I think, "Yessss! Its about time, you landscaping people, you."

As I start to pull forward, and this is no exaggeration, I have to wait for 7 cars to get out of my way.."C'mon people get out of my way!" I can be heard to say outloud. Then I see him. An older gentleman in a green car with his steely white hair going the same direction as I am. "Oh no your not....Oh, YES he did!" He drove right into the spot by the air compressor, parked and started to fill his tires. So, I pulled in next to him, went inside the store, got my DDP for the day, came back and he was still filling his tires....Did I mention that I have only 15 minutes???

I am reaching the 12 minute mark by now, and growing more impatient as the seconds tick by. I go out and stand by my car fold my arms and wait. I am trying to control my thoughts but I am not doing a very good job at it. Then he sees me, our eyes meet and he says,"I see you have a low tire there, can I fill it for you?" I say, "Thank-you, I'd love for you to fill it up for me!"

I am not mad anymore.

For all you Blog Readers

2008-12-02T16:12:00.002-06:00

For all of you blog followers, here is a great blog on Provident Living. http://safelygatheredin.blogspot.com/2008/06/new-to-our-blog-welcome.html I added it to my sidebar since I thought it was so fab! I hope you like it, too!

FYI

2008-11-25T10:27:00.003-06:00

For your information, I slept beautifully Wednesday night. I slept so well that I slept right thru the 5:15 am alarm for Seminary. SO sorry, Alex. For those who need to know, I did get EVERTHING on my list done...I know it was crazy long, but it had to be done so I could leave, stress free. I just have that kind of personality. Have I mentioned that I have a hard time being spontaneous? Let's just say I am working on it.

On another note, my weekend away was heavenly! The phone went off, the hotel was magnificent and the icing on the cake... it was all free! I have been extremely busy since returning Sunday evening, so I promise to post our photos from the trip over Thanksgiving. Can you believe it will be December in a few days? I better stop there or I won't be sleeping tonight!!

Insomnia "GOOD MORNING STARSHINE, THE EARTHS SAYS HELLO!"

2008-11-19T04:51:00.007-06:00

I can't sleep. I read my book, I fell asleep, but I woke up at 2:30 and have laid in bed now for over 2 hours trying to fall back asleep. What does that mean? Does it mean that I don't need the sleep? (I don't know how that is possible, I am/was tired) Does it mean my circadian rhythm is off? Perhaps its the running list of EVERYTHING I need to take care of before Thursday that is keeping me up.

Let's see....maybe if I commit it to paper (or this blog) I won't forget what I need to do and thus allow me to sleep tonight, a deep and restful coma-like sleep. Ahhhh...Wait! Do you think that if I talk about sleep and have expectations about sleep I won't be able to sleep? I don't know...I really hope not.

My List: (so I can sleep tonight!)

Work:

Download and work Fast Remits
Verify Insurance
Demographics
Follow up with KHS
Facesheets
Post
Close the Day
Send Bills
Follow up claims

Home:

Clean all bathrooms
Vacuum and dust entire house
Change Sheets
Finish Laundry (OK that is just Wednesday and Thursday's laundry...who are we kidding here. Laundry is NEVER finished)
Unload/Load DW
Sweep and Mop Hardwood
Sort Coupons ( take with me)
Alex Eagle Workbook - upload pics, merge files, put in binder, get signatures, get ride to see JJ
Put away quilting stuff
Check Diablo's foot today after mishap with quilting needle
Get dinner started (do this over lunch)
See if Ethan brought home his BR worksheet, get him going on that
Put away groceries in storage room, vacuum and dust basement, change cat litter, put a smelly thingy down there....
Make Calendar for Parents for the next 4 days
Make Packing List
Pack
Email Anna about contract/training
Send Anna's info by email to Shari, my BFF
Ask Patrick if he got a massage booked or not

Church:

Meeting with Connie tonight to go over VT changes (take info with me)
Call Connie to see if she got the email with the changes to be made (break)
Ethan to scouts
Check with E-dog to see if he had any homework for scouts
Find E-dogs slide for his bandanna
Phone calls (see planner, do over lunch while making dinner)
Notes written (see sticky note in planner-do on breaks at work...TAKE STAMPS to work)
Alex to YM

Funny thing, I feel better already. List making is cathartic to some degree, however, it can also be depressing. No elaboration needed here. Is it bad if I have a DC before 6 am?

Oh what is that saying from the movie, Willy Wonka? Something about starshine and greeting the world.. I can't recall it so I will have to remember to ask Landon when he wakes up for Seminary. At least I'm awake and Yikes! Where does the time go when you're having fun? I best get on with my day, there's no turning back now....

P.S. Per Landon, the exact quote from Willy Wonka is "Good morning Starshine, the earth says hello!" Which is what the subtitle of this post has now become. FYI I had my diet Dr Pepper at 6:45 am and on the way way into work an "Energy Vitamin Water. I hope that helps. My eyes are POPPING out of my head already...

Rapunzel, what have you done to your hair?

2008-11-17T17:59:00.004-06:00

For months now, Madison has wanted to cut her long tresses. After much deliberation on just "how to cut it, the deed is done. Wtih a total of 6 inches gone, long layers and most importantly "bangs" she looks marvelous. It withstood a soccer game and thus passed the test. Gone is the long straight pony. Say hello to the cute, and stylish zang-bang!

Sunrise, Sunset

2008-11-14T15:12:00.003-06:00

It used to be before the time change that I was fortunate enough to see the sunrise each morning as I drove east on I-435 toward my place of employment. Since daylight savings, the sunrises before I leave for work (and it is SO much easier to wake up) and I miss that. I am now so lucky at 5:05 pm each day to see the most gorgeous sunsets as I head west toward home each night. I am amazed at the variety of the scenes played before my eyes each night and I wonder, "is anyone else seeing this amazing picture?" I often call home and tell the family to run outside to see the beautiful sky.

I especially wonder if that lady who gave ME the finger the other day because SHE was texting on her cell phone while driving down the freeway and just about hit ME even noticed? She flipped ME the bird because I happened to honk MY horn before she clipped me.. anyhow. Yes, I know that I am #1! So are you!!! (I just rocked the world for some of you, didn't I) That is beside the point.

I have been lucky enough to sit on a beach in Hawaii and watch the sun slip beneath the waves of the pacific ocean. I have sat on sugar sand beaches in Florida and Mexico and witnessed the sun dip into the Gulf of Mexico. I have seen it set behind the Rocky Mountains of Colorado & Alberta. I have stood on mountain tops in Utah and watched it settle into the evening sky. I have seen it descend into the wheat fields over the plains of Kansas and over the deep, rich soil of Iowa. Each time as I view the gift I am reminded of my blessings.... I woke up today, I am married to a wonderful man, I am a mother.....and the list goes on. Next time you see a sunset, maybe it will fill you with gratitude for your blessings great and small.

Money Saving Tips

2008-11-11T10:36:00.003-06:00

I just came across this great webpage that has invaluable tools for helping to stretch your budget. BeCentsable has great ideas as well as links to printable coupons etc. Check it out!
http://www.becentsable.net/search/label/Shopping%20Tips%20and%20Articles

Things I love...and longing for.

2008-11-07T13:17:00.007-06:00

I am looking out my office window at the beautiful fall folliage. From where I sit, I overlook a park and the fall colors are absolutely breathtaking. I love the vivid orange and red leaves mixed with the green of those leaves yet to change and the dull brown branches of the leafless trees. (Now if only Planned Parenthood weren't also in my view it would be better!) The crisp fall air reminds me to pull out my favorite sweaters and flannel pjs. It makes me long for hot cocoa loaded with marshmallows, a fuzzy blanket and a great book to curl up with on the couch and read. Did I mention that I love to read? I love this time of year.

When I close my eyes and take in a deep breath, I am brought to a simpler time in my life. I smell home. I don't absolutely get it, but it gets me everytime I do it. In some small way I am comforted by the smell of the changing seasons. I have some weird habits and one of them is smelling things. ( I get you, Gale, because I am the same way.) I have this thing about smells and what they conjure for me. I love the smell of a baby fresh from the bath, I love the smell of pine as I hike in the mountains, and I love the smell of fresh baked bread. Most of all, I love the smell of my husband's neck just before I bite it...

P.S. I got my hot cocoa and it was fabulous!!

MAN CHILD

2008-11-04T15:07:00.002-06:00

I have been putting off writing this post for about a month now. I just don't want to think about the fact that "ma baby es a ma-an" (said with a strong southern accent for effect) I think it is because one part of me looks at the future and thinks, "have I taught him well enough" to go out into the world and do what is right? Judging by some of our political discussions which have become heated at times, I think not. However, he often-times, suprises me with his caring and compassion for others which then makes me think I've done ok. There are other times when I think "I can't wait for him to be gone" which usually happens after one of our heated political discussions.

I will miss him regardless of our political views. Just last night I wrapped my arms around him and had to go up on my tip-toes to kiss his cheek. The thought came to me how often as a toddler he would reach up and say "Hold you, Mama?" I am growing verklempt just thinking at how quickly those moments in time pass, and how often because we are selfish, we let them slip by without savoring them. It makes me feel old thinking that he is 18 as I can clearly remember what 18 felt like.

For me it seems like yesterday when he was my little buddy, now he is a man. Go forth and Serve, Landon. Make me proud. I love you!!!

HALLOWEEN FUN

2008-11-04T13:16:00.003-06:00

We had a great Halloween this year. I know it helped that it was a Friday....Also, I think in part because the weather was soooo beautiful! It made for great trick or treating.

We started off the festivities at our ward Trunk or Treat on Thursday evening....everyone got a bit freaked out by Patrick. No one knew who he was....which is exactly what he was going for.

For the "real" thing on Friday evening, we started off at Chipotle to get our "free" burritos for dinner ( i just love FREE). It was fun to see what people came dressed like for that. Landon had to work both nights and it was a bummer not to have him with us. We got there "just in time" as the line was forming for the giveaway...Yummers!!

Then it was off to our evening chock full o'fun....Madi went out dressed as Alice Cullen (a vampire) from Twilight, Ethan was a Soldier Zombie, I was a punker/goth girl and Patrick was his ol' redneck self. Madi and Alex both went off to parties and fun, while Ethan and Patrick went with friends gathering candy from the willing neighbors. I passed out the candy at our house which was oh so much fun! I just love to see what everyone comes dressed as. Around 8:30 we put the candy on the porch and headed over to a friends party for more food and fun. It was a blast! Oh boy, did my feet hurt the next day from those high-heeled boots!!

Civic Duty

2008-10-30T10:13:00.003-05:00

Landon and I went this week to the JO CO Election office to cast our advance vote for the upcoming elections. GO MCAIN*PALIN!!!! Congratulations Landon, you are officially a MAN!!

As we were waiting in line, the thought occured to me what a big deal this is...this democracy thing. There are people all over the world who will never experience this, never get a chance to vote for their officials. Yet, so many of us Americans take this for granted. What a shame.... I am proud to be an American! This is a big one, people, so get out there and VOTE!!!

LIFE JUST GETS CRAZY SOMETIMES

2008-10-27T13:21:00.002-05:00

Do you ever just have those days or weeks where all you can do is put out the most dangerous of fires while others still burn in the background? Mine has lasted about 3 months now. It is amazing to me how fast the days are flying by without getting much further ahead. There always seems to be something that comes up that needs my immediate attention diverting my time and resources from that which I want to do. I am the queen of putting out fires, I could be an honorary fire cheif....A fire that burns out of control can be dangerous..regardless of how much water you have. I am still progressing, but in spurts. I have learned how to dovetail my dovetailing and multi-task like nobody's business. But, can you really dovetail time with your family? I am thinking that the Lord would understand if I tatooed "no" on the palm of my hand. Might not be pretty, but it would serve a good purpose to remind me to slow down, to breathe and call for back-up.

EVANS FAMILY CHALLENGE

2008-09-09T15:14:00.002-05:00

It was our Stake Conference weekend this past Saturday and Sunday. I loved the fact that I had no responsibilities whatsoever. My kids even noticed a lighter, happier Mom and commented on the fact that I seemed to be smiling a lot that Sunday...that aside it was a wonderful conference focusing on specific things that we can do to strengthen our families for the days ahead. One of the speakers referred to a talk given by Sis. Dalton the general YW president. In it she encouraged the YW to be 100% ers in these areas...personal prayer, 5 mins of daily Book of Mormon reading and smiling. For FHE, the Evans created their own personal family challenge to include: 100% in personal prayer, 100% in daily family prayer, 100% in daily 5 min reading of the Book of Mormon and 100% in family scripture reading. I believe that if we can be 100% ers in these areas that we will also be smiling more often! I can't wait to see the effects take place. Are you up for the challenge as well?

P.S. If you call at 8:45 pm we won't answer the phone....

Perfection...

2008-09-08T20:05:00.003-05:00

I love Dove dark chocolate. We have this basket full of Dove chocolate at work and occasionally I will dip for a weekly treat. (OK really, there is so much candy at our office that I really do have to limit myself to one or two a week) Anyhow, I love getting the fortunes as well and I collect my favorites. Coincidentally, this one came at a time when my need to find perfection in my life was blinding me to what was really important.

I believe there are things in which we should strive for perfection in....we all have those personal lists of what we should be perfect in, but mine was overwhelming. No matter how late I stayed up I could not be perfect in everything I did. It reminded me that I needed to prioritize. I needed to look at what was really important to be perfect in. The things that mattered most to me were being set aside for laundry, cleaning, and other just as routine tasks that round out a day. What I needed was to be reminded that the laundry and cleaning and sometimes Relief Society can wait while I perfect my relationships with my husband, my children and my God.

A Daily Scoop

2008-09-03T15:17:00.002-05:00

For a few months now I have been following the blog of a young mother who lost her infant daughter to a tragic accident. To work through her grief, she blogs. She is a talented writer and although her grief is very real, so is her testimony of the atonement. She inspires me to be a better mother, wife, and friend. Visit her blog at www.adailyscoop.blogspot.com

ALL FOR FREE

2008-08-29T20:57:00.003-05:00

Check out my stash of free items! I am completely amazed at the wonder of it all. By being a savvy shopper at CVS and using coupons I actually got all of this for free...4/12 pks of Dr Pepper, 2 bags of Lays chips, 2 hand soaps, 2 toothpastes, 1/4 pk razors and 2 zip fizz...In addtion, I made back 8$ to spend at a later date. So I actually made money on this shopping trip. Amazing!!! My new favorite webspot is www.moneysavingmom.com Every day there are new posts of what is on sale along with links to printable coupons. Why didn't I discover this sooner?

THE BEGINNING AND THE END

2008-08-14T10:27:00.002-05:00

Today is the beginning of a new school year for Madison (7th) and Ethan (5th) and the end of another summer. It is always with some regret that I send my kiddos off to school. Regret that the summer ended so quickly and that we didn't get to spend more time together. Ahh...the anxiety of a working mom! I do however, love the preparation for school..buying new clothes, shopping for school supplies (oh how i love the smell of office depot!) and the anticipation of a new teacher.

I had mixed emotions when I waved to Madi as she boarded the bus for Jr High at 7:10 am...she is growing up so fast. I held the tears back and it helped that I had Diablo with me who was a distraction...He cried when Madi got on the bus and I had to restrain him from running after her! It seemed like her years in elementary school were LONG and these next 6 years I know from experience are gone in a blink of and eye. Before I know it she will a SR!

Ethan didn't want us to come to school with him this morning..he thought he could handle it all on his own. Talk about independence! He continues to amaze me with his humorous insight and 10 year old wisdom. Only two more Halloween Costume Parades to go!!

2008-08-13T11:16:00.001-05:00

We are trying hard to follow the Dave Ramsey program to get ourselves completely out of debt before Landon heads out on a mission in 18 months. But, I need help! I would love your advice and wisdom on how you save money budgeting and particularly how you make your grocery dollars stretch. With the high cost of fuel, most of our "expendable" income goes to that and food. There never seemes to be enough to go around.

Lots to think about...

2008-08-08T15:11:00.002-05:00

While on vacation I found out that my childhood friend, Stacey French, passed away after a tragic accident. She left her two daughters behind, as well as a new husband and step children. Each time I would travel home to Canada, I would see her at her store in the Food Court at the mall. We would chat, I would buy a diet coke or sometimes she would give it to me "on the house." We would trade quick stories and that was that.
When I heard of her passing, I immediately had this flash of memories that played like swift movie clips all connected together into one. I saw us walking to primary afterschool, stopping at her house to raid her mother's food storage for koolaid packets and jello that we would eat on the way...I saw us picking flower on the way for our primary teacher...and getting yelled at by the lady whose garden we "borrowed from"...I saw us in Jr High at Basketball practice...then as Football Cheerleaders...the list goes on. Most of all I could hear her infectious laugh playing as the soundtrack.
I cried for her family who lost a brother and a son just a few months past. I cried for her daughters who will not feel the arms of their mother around them. I cried for myself that I wasn't a better friend. It strengthened my resolve to wrap my arms around those I love more often than I do and to tell those I love, "I love you" at every opportunity. Our time here on earth is not our own, I want to live with no regrets.

Vacation come and gone.....

2008-08-04T15:33:00.003-05:00

We looked so forward to our Utah vacation! It is hard to believe that it has come and gone already. Here is just a sampling of how we spent our time. It was great to see so many of my first cousins at our "Alley" family reunion at Bear Lake. It was a diet coke fest, for sure! We loved spending time with them. It was so great of the Utah Evans to let us camp out at their place the whole time. We can't wait to return the favor someday. The boys enjoyed their soccer camp at good 'ol BYU. It was fun taking the campus tour in golf carts with Landon and Bradley. Madi stayed behind for 10 more days to visit with the Péo's. Jeff flew her home a week ago Sunday. It was wonderful to see my brother Dusty and his family as well as Delise and her's. Not to mention spending time with Mom and Dad. It had been a long 18 months. Darin and his family were definately missed!

PUPPY!!!

2008-08-04T15:29:00.002-05:00

Here is an updated picture of our sweet pup. He discovered the sunny side window here just big enough for him to warm up in. Both ears are up now. (one used to be floppy) He is doing pretty well adjusting to his new home. Madison carries him around like a baby most days. He is definately spoiled! He is getting braver by the minute with Sydney our cat.

Sleeping Beauty

2008-08-04T15:21:00.002-05:00

Landon is snoring away upstairs. You can see from this picture his shoulder is bandaged and the immobilizer/stabilizer that he will have to wear 24/7 for the next 30 days. The surgeon told us that tommorrow will be a hard day for him once the block wears off. He also said that this surgery is one of the most painful you can have....I hope he does ok. He has been sleeping for about 3 hours now. I bet he will be hungry when he wakes up.

Landon's Surgery

2008-08-04T12:11:00.004-05:00

These pictures were taken right after the anaesthesiologist did the regional block in his neck. He was sedated and was LOOPY! I got to ask him a bunch of questions that he may or may not remember that he answered for me. Oh, it is good to have leverage!
Landon's surgery went very well. The surgery only took about 1.5 hours. The labrum was torn completely in 2 places which was allowing that piece to float and get caught in the joint. (no wonder it hurt) They were stiched back together and the little pieces that were floating were removed. It was all done laproscopically so just 3 little incisions to heal on the outside. He had a regional block which allowed him to wake up from anaesthesia pain free. He should be able to rest comfortably most of the day without pain meds. We got home about an hour ago and put him to bed. He asked for Chipotle...so we know he's doing ok!

WEBELOS CAMP

2008-08-04T12:03:00.003-05:00

Ethan had a fun 3 day webelos camp this past Thursday thru Saturday. He earned all the pins you can earn at camp plus recieved his "whitlin' chip" which means he can carry a pocket knife "officially" now. I'm pretty sure that getting being able to carry a knife was the highlight of the camp. His days were long...6:30am to 9:30 pm. He and several of the other boys slept each night at the leaders house making it a real adventure. When the big boys and I got to camp Friday afternoon at 5 pm it was 100 degrees with about 50% humidity, the camp was under a heat advisory. We had brought up dinner to eat there with him, however, Ethan was waiting at the picnic table and was ready to go home. It was too hot to eat outside! In fact he was too hot to really care about showing us around. So, we hopped in the van, cranked up the air and headed home!

Girls Camp

2008-06-15T14:46:00.002-05:00

Madi survived girls camp. She actually more than survived it, she loved every minute of it. She was the most organized packer of all. She had her clothes packed in outfits in gallon zip lock bags! She met lots of new best friends and swapped cell phone numbers with all of them. We thought she texted alot before, we were wrong. I had to go up one evening to present a fireside. I was so sad that I couldn't be there all week long. It was fun to see all the girls. I smuggled in some cold caffeinated beverages for my girlfriends who now owe me...big!

DIABLO!

2008-06-13T16:40:00.002-05:00

DIABLO IS HERE! Diablo was born about 5 weeks ago. He is a teacup chihuahua and is waiting patiently for us to pick him up in Utah. We are so excited to finally meet him.

SPURTS

2008-06-13T16:37:00.002-05:00

We have been really bad at blogging lately. Have you noticed that we seem to go in spurts? I don't have an opportunity to sit and add things very often. I have to fight to get my time on the computer. So, take it or leave it, it is what it is. We love to hear from you no matter how often we post.

Alex's first Stake Dance

2008-06-13T16:33:00.001-05:00

Alex turned 14 this spring and finally decided it was time to go to a stake dance. It was a black and white themed evening. He sure is a cutie!

Ethan is 10!

2008-06-13T16:31:00.002-05:00

Ethan turned 10 last week and we celebrated with a few of Ethan's friends. We ate pizza, played outside and took the boys to Indiana Jones and the Temple of the Crystal Skull. It was fun! I can't believe my baby is 1o!!!! Where does the time go?

Hair Cloud

2008-06-13T16:25:00.001-05:00

We were hoping that this day would come, and it did. Landon finally cut his hair so he no longer looks like Syndrome from the Incredibles. He had a lot of hair...he sure looks handsome now!

PROM!!!

2008-04-13T17:26:00.004-05:00

It was Prom yesterday for Landon's High School. He took his friend, Bree who Ethan says is a hottie...She is a darling girl who Landon has been dating for a while now.

There were 22 kids in his group that all went together. They rented a Navigator Limo that took them to dinner downtown at Crown Center. From there they headed to the dance and then ended up at the school for a 3 hour "after Prom Party." What a night! It was 3:20am when he finally got back in, happy but exhausted. Prom isn't cheap these days...I believe Landon's total spent was 300$...Yikes! He paid for it all himself, which means he is now broke...but, oh the memories..it was all worth it...

Preparedness Fair

2008-04-13T17:26:00.002-05:00

In addition to all this Court of Honor and Birthday partying, I was also involved in a huge tri-ward Preparedness fair. It was months in the planning and hours of worry hoping that it would all come together. It did, and it was a huge success! We had specialists there from the community..red cross, police, firefighters, fema...as well as home storage tips, 72 hour kits on display, taste tests for several types of powdered milk, displays on energy sources, financial planning, and emergency communication. It was very well attended by the wards as well as the outside community. This was just one of the many poster displays on how to build your home storage. We even made it to the paper!! What a crazy week it has been....

Alex is 14!

2008-04-13T17:26:00.001-05:00

Alex is finally 14! It marks a milestone in his life...he is now old enough to get his Learners Permit (scary!), be ordained a teacher, and go to stake dances (very scary!) We started celebrating at 6:30am before everyone had to leave for school and work. He got lots of clothes, some spending money and a great new soccer bag. He requested an Ice Cream Cake, so I came up with this frozen Oreo Dessert that was dreamy! He had a great day. We will definately keep you posted on when he is legally driving so you can stay off the roads!

Court of Honor

2008-04-13T17:26:00.000-05:00

After years and years of patient encouragement and forceful reminders, it is finished! We celebrated Landon's Rank of Eagle Scout with a lovely Court of Honor on Sunday, March 30. We shared the event with Andrew Birkinsha and his family. It was a night to remember in so many ways....lets see.....we sent out announcements stating it was at 6:30 pm...the ward announced it to be at 7 pm. KU was playing Davidson in the elite 8. We weren't sure they would win, but they did...There was torrential rain.....Patrick loaded the van for me, but forgot the cakes...and took out the tablecloths...I had to run home to get them. I prayed for green lights all the way. The trip takes 14 minutes one way..I left at 6:30 and got back at 6:50. Can you tell I am still a little bitter? I couldn't find my camera (someone had packed away my basket with all my stuff in it and I didn't find it until the very end) and this is the only picture I have from the event. At least I have this one. I am just glad it is over.

Madison Turns 12

2008-02-08T13:12:00.001-06:00

Madison had a great time turning 12. There was a lot to look forward to. She had a party with the family and then had a friend party with 20 girls at an ice skating arena. They skated for over 2 hours and had a blast.

Madi has more friends than anyone I know. She has this incredible, friendly, compassionate personality that people want to be around. We are certainly proud of the young woman she is becoming.

So, give it up for Madi the 12 year old preteen princess of 116th Street.

Pinewood Derby

2008-02-08T13:12:00.000-06:00

Ok - So we have entered alot of cars in pinewood derbies in the past 10 years. We had some cool ones and some interesting ones, but this year we had a fast one. Ethan and I worked hard to build his hotrod truck with axle polishing and perfect placement. The wheels were polished smooth. I think that the glossy paint was even a factor.

We raced through the prelims and advanced to the final heats. Ethans' truck and the final winner had to race and re-race as the winner depended on the lane assignment. We finally lost two races in a row by a fraction and finished with a very exciting 2nd place.

I am no wood craftsman or any other kind of craftsman. I am an engineer and people sometimes confuse this with handyman skills(does not translate). I can design it, but don't ask me to build it. So finishing this well is a particular source of pride and joy. Ethan did do most of the work by the way.(sidenote)

The best part of the whole evening.........At the end a reporter from the local paper was interviewing the 4 top place winners(including Ethan) and this crazy cubscout kid comes running across the gym, trips, and crashes into all of the boys, their awards, and cars, and they all go flying into the gym partition like bowling pins(He is shouting the whole time "Hey wait for me, I want to be famous too!!!!)

Darci asks the mom standing next to us if this kid is on medication or something and she leans in and says "No, he's just home schooled". That is funny as heck.

Good times. Even Madison was excited to see her brother be so successful

HOLIDAY SLEDDING

2007-12-28T15:55:00.000-06:00

ETHAN WORKING HIS WAY BACK UP THE HILL.

MADI AND HER GIRLFRIENDS TAKING A RIDE.

ALEX PREPPING FOR ANOTHER SNOWBOARD RUN.

THE SNOW KEEPS COMING DOWN THIS DECEMBER. 2 OR 3" AT A TIME. WE DECIDED TO GO SLEDDING TODAY. IT WAS COLD AND FUN.

Landon is an Eagle Scout

2007-12-21T13:55:00.000-06:00

Landon had his official board of review for Eagle Scout last night. He passed!!!! What a lot of work and disciplined effort to get this done. We are very proud of him and his hard work. Give him a big thumbs up when you get a chance.

TRICK OR TREAT

2007-11-03T15:34:00.003-05:00

Alex the long haired soccer player. 9 pounds of candy!!!!

Madison the Egyptian Princess.
Ethan is a hippie skeleton dude at the school parade.

2007-11-03T15:34:00.002-05:00

PUMPKINS

2007-11-03T15:34:00.001-05:00

Madi and Ethan with their pumpkin carving efforts.

2007-11-03T15:34:00.000-05:00

Alex and his growling bear pumpkin.

Madi at the Concert Too

2007-10-30T21:07:00.001-05:00

Madi plays the Violin and is sitting in the front with her pony tail and blue ribbon facing the camera the whole time.

All Hallows Eve Strings Concert

2007-10-30T21:07:00.000-05:00

Give a listen to Alex' 8th grade orchestra. They are playing the Waltz of the Wicked. He is in the Viola section in the back and can not be seen. But we can hear him.

IT'S ABOUT TIME I DID SOMETHING RADICAL

2007-10-11T17:42:00.001-05:00

Ok, so I bit the bullet Saturday and chopped off the hair! I feel so SAASSSYY now. It's a definate change and so much fun. At first, I thought it was going to be harder to do, but I've successfully mastered the roundbrush again. LOVE IT!! It has cut the getting ready time in half!! I know I will miss my long hair on days I sleep late, but too late to mourn... SEE YA

One Room Schoolhouse

2007-10-09T09:50:00.002-05:00

Ethan spent last week exploring the world of 19th century America through the education in a one-room school house. Friday was their landrush picnic for families. He looks pretty good in a hat. Check out his string tricks. Nice....

Landon Goes to Homecoming Dance

2007-10-09T09:50:00.001-05:00

Landon took his friend Dempsey to her homecoming dance and party this past weekend. They went with a group of 16 kids to a French restaurant(that totally reminds me of the scene from the movie "Better off Dead" where the mother makes Fraaaanch toast and Fraaaanch Fries and Fraaaanch dressing for the French foreign exchange student living across the street......Rickie!!!!!!)

Iowa Soccer Tournament - Enter the Fog

2007-10-09T09:50:00.000-05:00

Alex(and the rest of his KC Fusion team) finished 2nd place in a

soccer tournament in Urbandale Iowa last month. This was a cold and foggy Saturday morning. The game had to be postponed for an hour so the frosty grass would survive and so you could see if someone scored a goal. It was a fun weekend for Patrick and Alex to play and eat. We stayed in Ankeny(Patrick and Darci lived in Ankeny 20 years ago). Brought back good memories.

Alex Evans - Life Scout

2007-08-28T09:20:00.000-05:00

In July Alex received his Life Scout Rank Advancement. Two merit badges and an Eagle Project and he will be an Eagle Scout! Landon barely beat him to the punch on this one. Way to go Alex!

Ethan Earns Cub Scout Award

2007-08-28T09:16:00.001-05:00

Ethan worked hard this summer and earned his Wolf badge and three arrow points. We had a swim party pack meeting last Friday to celebrate. Way to go E!

First Day of School 2007

2007-08-28T09:01:00.000-05:00

Landon 11th Grade

Alex 8th Grade

Madison 6th Grade

Ethan 4th Grade

Grandma and Grandpa Payne come to Kansas

2007-08-08T13:30:00.000-05:00

Del and Denise came to visit us for a week and it was a blast. We played games, laughed, talked, went bowling, saw movies, and visited Church history sites. I had to leave for Cleveland and Landon had to leave for a white water raft trip to West Virginia, so we both missed a couple of days with them. Check out the Chuckie Cheese photos.

Patrick

No, really, STOP ROCKING THE WORLD!!

2007-07-10T21:33:00.000-05:00

OK, FOR 3 DAYS NOW I HAVE WEAVED LIKE A DRUNKEN SAILOR...I AM SICK ALL DAY LONG..AND HAVE TROUBLE CONCENTRATING...WHEN WILL THE TORTURE END? I ASKED A FRIEND WHO IS A DR IF I POSSIBLY HAVE AN INNER EAR PROBLEM. SHE ASKED ME HOW MANY DAYS I SAT ON THE DOCK.. I REPLIED "5".. SHE THEN TOLD ME THAT IN 5 DAYS IF THE SYMPTOMS STILL ARE PREVALENT, THEN SHE WOULD BE CONCERNED. FIVE DAYS IS A LONG TIME TO SING SAILOR SONGS...ANY REMEDIES? PLEASE, SOMEONE!

LORDY, I AM 40!!!!!

2007-07-09T19:47:00.000-05:00

I know it's hard to believe...I turned 40 last week.. I am having a bit of trouble accepting it myself. I spent my day reading, swimming, and jetskiing. I hosted a cannonball contest and an after dark dance party on the dock. We all went out to T's for Pizza and came home for cake and ice cream. It was a very good day. This will go down as one of the more memorable birthdays I've had. Here's to the next 40..

Lake O' the Ozarks

2007-07-09T18:00:00.000-05:00

We took our summer vacation this week... compliments of our good friends, Matt & Rhonda Masilionis. We stayed at their new lake home for 5 days. We jet-skied, tubed, fished and hung out on their dock. We had a blast! Best of all, we slept in every morning. We all came home tanned and well rested. Darci came home with motion sickness...someone stop rocking the world!

NEW JOB!

2007-06-26T18:03:00.001-05:00

Hey Howdy Hey! It's my lucky day! I was offered the job that I've been interviewing for these past 4 weeks. It is with a Physicians Management group of which a friend of mine recommended me for the position. I was confident in my skills, but have been waiting for an offer for many days. HOORAY! We are blessed.

Say Cheese!

2007-06-25T21:51:00.000-05:00

Well, after 3 long years of tortuous procedures, the braces came off today...Hallelujah! Alex was pretty excited and so was Mom to see that beautiful $5K smile from ear to ear minus the hardware...don't they look fabulous? He does have an upper and lower retainer that he will wear full time, any bets on how long it will take to lose one? (I think before all was said and done, Landon lost 3...it is inevitable)

This week went by pretty slow with Alex at scout camp. It was good to see him Saturday afternoon..he was missed. We had about 20 people over that evening for a BBQ so there was no rest for the boy until late.

We have had several new families move into our ward over the past few weeks so we invited a few over for a get to know your ward picnic. The weather was cooperative and we were able to have everyone outside all evening long. Madi was in heaven with babies and toddlers to play with and hold. We had another 2 new families show up this past Sunday so we are growing...I love it!

What's in a name....

2007-06-18T17:37:00.000-05:00

Can you imagine, Ethan times 3? HAHAHAHA! We saw this license plate up at the Legends shopping center this weekend. Ethan actually spotted it and we just happened to have the camera in the car..

Another Week in our Lives

2007-06-18T16:41:00.000-05:00

Well, another week has flown by in the Evans Household. Here's a recap of what happened....... Ethan had an awesome time at Cub day camp all last week . Patrick attended with him all day Wednesday and had a blast with him. He was one tired E-dog when Friday rolled around.

Madi, Alex and Landon all had Soccer tryouts this week and "made" their respective teams. Alex and Landon are returning to their teams from last season and Madison is joining a new team that is actually being coached by the same man that coaches Landon. We are excited to see how that all works out for us. Landon is trying out for the Wizard's Club tonight, too. It is a prettty cool developmental program for the KC Wizards to train perspective players...We'll let you know how that turns out for him...

Ethan Started his indoor summer season yesterday. Indoor soccer is so much fun to watch, and you gotta love those 20 min halves! Do you get the idea that soccer never ends for us?

I had an additional interview with HIMS, a physicians management group, on Thursday It took about 2 hours to do all the testing and interviewing. They are supposed to let me know what their decision is this coming week. A friend, Tom Frederickson, is a Dr. in that group and suggested that I apply. It's hard to say what will happen. I hope I get the job, they have great benefits and also have certification classes available for their employees.

I wish I had the $ and time to just go back to school and be a nurse! I looked into it and they do have a program at JCCC, just up the street from me...it is tempting...I wonder if I could get student loans? Any advice out there? Somedays I just wish I had a fairy godmother!!!

Gag Me With a Spoon!

2007-06-12T12:33:00.001-05:00

If I hear one more news report on Paris Hilton I think I will scream..do the crime, pay with time girl! I am sick of hearing about her...as many of you have heard me comment before, a girl with so much money and influence could and should be doing so much more than she is. What a waste.... that's all for now. Word to your mother...

SYDNEY CAT, SYDNEY CAT, What are they feeding you?

2007-06-12T12:14:00.000-05:00

Yikes! Sydney wanted to make an appearance on our Blog. Should've picked a more convenient time for her to pose. She is a crazy kitty!

Happy Father's Day!

2007-06-12T12:11:00.000-05:00

Hey dad! I got you this fine picture of a cool corvette stingray for Father's day. It was b-e-a-utiful!

Job Hunting

2007-06-12T12:04:00.000-05:00

I started the job hunt, again, and have a couple of good leads so far. I am just amazed at the amount of stuff that you have to do to be a job candidate...personality profiles, math tests, reading tests, typing tests, excel tests and the list goes on and on. I guess you can't be too careful these days... I will let you know what I come up with. Our school secretary just retired and that position is open...I am considering that as I would be able to see my kids and have a fairly similar schedule as them...I'll let you know.

2007-06-10T19:25:00.000-05:00

The 2nd week of summer has now passed. Darci spent the week at girls camp and had a great time.

Patrick, the boys , and Madi stayed home and enjoyed a night of free Chipotle burritos and several hamburger helper surprises.

Work was busy and the kids helped keep up with dishes, laundry, lawnmowing, etc..

Landon is driving a 2002 Kia Spectra that we got dirt cheap. It is a stick and he can now go without a major lurch. He is willing to get kids places for us. AHHHHHH! Berrry Nice.

Ethan starts cub camp in the morning. Next week is scout camp for Alex. The next week is soccer camp for Landon and Alex and then Youth conference for Landon. Busy days.

2007-06-09T11:03:00.000-05:00

I am trying to learn how to get a photo into the blog!!!